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How Do You Deal with Defensive People?

Thursday, July 9th, 2015
This YouTube video answers the question: How do you deal with defensive people? Carefully–but not for the reason you think. If you have defensive people in your life, and all…
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YouTube Video: To Speak or Not to Speak

Thursday, May 21st, 2015
This YouTube video will explain when to speak and when not to speak. Ecclesiastes 3:7 says, There is “a time to be silent and a time to speak.” Do you…
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The Destructive Nature of Contempt

Wednesday, May 13th, 2015
This YouTube video explains the destructive nature of contempt. You have powerful emotions in your relationships, especially when someone is mistreating you or someone you love. When you try to…
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How to Maintain Emotional Sobriety

Thursday, April 30th, 2015
Did you know that you can get drunk from your emotions? You most certainly can when you over react to people. Difficult relationships are challenging and one of the common…
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How to Resist the Lure of the Triangle

Thursday, April 23rd, 2015
You need to learn how to resist the lure of the triangle. What is the triangle? It is created when you step into the relationship between two other people. In…
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How to Deal with Sensitive People

Saturday, March 7th, 2015
Do you have sensitive people in your life? Are these sensitive people impossible to please? Do they use their “sensitivities” to manipulate you into doing what they want? Do you…
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What is Your Coping Style?

Friday, January 16th, 2015
What is your coping style? Each of us reacts under pressure in a certain way. We default back to the behavior that helps us manage the things that are going…
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What to Expect When You Stop Enabling

Thursday, January 8th, 2015
This YouTube video explores what will happen when you stop enabling a person who is benefiting from not having to be self-responsible. “Enabling” is when you cover up, lie, fix,…
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How Do You Apply Biblical Love in a Difficult Relationship?

Tuesday, December 2nd, 2014
How do you love a difficult person? Does it mean that you always trust, always hope, always persevere? Does it mean you tolerate everything, never say no, and cover up…
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How to Recognize Toxic People

Monday, November 24th, 2014
It is essential that you recognize the people in your life who are toxic. “Toxic” people have the ability to harm you. The word “toxic” means that it has the…
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