 Review the biblical boundary principles. Which ones convince you that better boundaries are necessary for you?The Bible clearly teaches that boundaries are necessary and healthy. Jesus modeled self-control, assertiveness, and boundaries in his life and relationships. And God has boundaries too.

Here are the biblical principles upon which boundaries are based:

Choice. From the very beginning, God gave us the power to make our own choices, even though we could choose sin. We need to take responsibility for our own choices and allow others the dignity to make their own choices and be responsible for them.

Consequences. With choice come the consequences of those choices. If our decisions are prudent, we will reap the good that comes from making wise and responsible choices. If our decisions are poor, we will reap the bad that comes from making unwise and irresponsible choices.

Accountability. The Bible indicates that we are responsible for our choices and must give an account to God for them. We cannot blame our choices on others, just as others will not be able to blame us for theirs.

Stewardship. We are all responsible for using our money, time, opportunities, and abilities wisely. Boundaries are necessary to help us make wise choices as good stewards of our lives.
Care. We need to care for others and ourselves by balancing the needs of both. Self-care isn’t selfish; it is essential.

Influence. While we cannot control others, we are responsible for influencing them for good. We can do this by the way we live our lives and by the boundaries we set. Boundaries set a standard. A lack of boundaries enables people to continue wrongdoing without consequences.

These principles demonstrate just how strongly and clearly the Bible teaches that boundaries are good and necessary. I hope they will encourage you to have strong boundaries in your own life and relationships.

By Karla Downing

Relationship Devotional Prayer

 
God,

Help me to be convinced that boundaries are biblical and pleasing to you. Give me the ability to see clearly the boundaries I need in my life and relationships.

Relationship Devotional Challenge

• Review the biblical boundary principles. Which ones convince you that better boundaries are necessary for you?

Scripture Meditation

 
Galatians 6:7-8

“Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life” (NIV).

Romans 14:12

“So then, each of us will give an account of ourselves to God” (NIV).

Ephesians 5:15-16

“Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil” (NIV).